Wednesday, July 04, 2007 ; 5:13 PMY
I really wish you were here.
You may say that I cannot take jokes, okay then, I can't.
You may say that you just enjoy kidding in this way, but I don't think it's funny at all.
If you ask me whether I'm hurt, yes I am.
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I was hesitating whether to say this, I've decided to say it in this entry.
A husband and wife, married for 20 odd years, with kids already grown up.
That doesn't really matter la.
Wife forgets to set the rice cooker to cook the rice, only realizing it when the husband wanted to have his dinner before setting off to work.
Wife: SORRY SORRY! It just slipped my mind! Very fast, it'll cook!
Husband: What the fuck are you doing?! You can't even cook dinner well! Are you trying to fool me? You think this is fun?! Don't you know that I needa go to work???
Wife: I already said I'm sorry, what's done is done, what do you expect me to do? What makes you think I'm so free to fool you?
Husband: Aiya, *Hurled vulgarities non stop* You're always so blur cock la.
*Husband storms outta the house, and has his dinner at a nearby coffee shop.
Wife sits at home and complains to her kids that she've cooked alot, and they must finish their father's portion as well.
Mind you, this wife quitted her job because she has to be a housewife.
Mind you, she has been a housewife for her 10 odd years of life.
Mind you, she serves dinner at the dot EACH AND EVERY DAY at 530pm sharp just to cater to the NEEDS of her husband's working hours.
Mind you, she is the one who scrimps and save up, that's why the family isn't declared bankrupt.
Mind you, this husband owns his own company, which means he is entitled to be late alil.
The next day, this husband is seen frying some dish, seemingly trying to cover up what he has done the day before.
OH hell, it isn't that case. It's a dish which he had brought back, and the wife is new to it, and doesn't know how to fix it.
And the next day, he started hurling at his wife over trival matters.
Kid was pouring water into her water bottle.
Kid: OOPS! No water already!
Wife/Mother frowns: What no more water, the other container!
Kid: Wah, so light, I don't think it's sufficient!
Wife whispers in a low voice: Don't have then boil, come back later then! Don't say that there's no water, you wanna put me in hot soup and let me kena scolding again arh? Whatever I do must be PERFECT, if not I cannot satisfy him!
How is the kid suppose to respond?
Marry Chicken, Follow Chicken, Marry Dog, Follow Dog like how they say it in Mandarin. 嫁鸡随鸡，嫁狗随狗。
Sad for women, isn't it?
Oh, this man, whom I've forgiven, but still doesn't repent on his mistakes, taking it out on the only woman left whom he can take it out on. (After taking it out on the other two)
Think he doesn't deserve to be forgiven, i guess forgotten is more appropriate?
Maybe I'm too forgiving, not a good thing at all.
